How to Support Your High School Senior in Their College Search
The college search is an exciting (and sometimes stressful) journey for both students and parents. As a parent of a high school senior, you’re likely eager to help your child navigate the decision-making process, but you might also wonder: How do I support them without overwhelming them?
Here’s the good news: It’s all about striking the right balance between offering guidance and allowing your senior the space to make their own decision. Here are some simple yet effective ways you can be actively involved in your child’s college search, without stepping on their toes.
- Be a Sounding Board, not a Decision-Maker
This is your child’s decision, and it’s important for them to feel empowered to choose the college that best fits their goals. Listen carefully to their thoughts, dreams, and concerns. Offer your insights when asked but resist the urge to make the final call. Your role is to help them process their options and think through what matters most to them—whether it’s academics, location, extracurriculars, or campus culture.
- Help Them Stay Organized
With so many colleges to consider, deadlines to track, and applications to fill out, scholarships to apply for, staying organized is key. Help your senior create a timeline for applications and keep track of deadlines, financial aid requirements, and campus visit dates. Tools like checklists or shared calendars can be a lifesaver. However, let your child take charge of completing the tasks. This gives them the sense of ownership while still having your support.
- Encourage Campus Visits
Visiting campuses is one of the best ways for your child to feel a connection with a school. Be sure to include your child in the planning process and allow them to take the lead when it comes to visiting campuses. Discuss potential questions ahead of time, and recap with them after the visit.
- Talk About the Practical Stuff
The college search isn’t just about what feels good—it’s also about the logistics. Have open and honest conversations about financial aid, tuition, scholarships, and housing. Encourage your senior to think about the costs involved and help them weigh their options. But remember, the financial discussion should be a partnership. Guide, don’t dictate.
- Trust Their Judgment
At the end of the day, your senior is the one who will be living at their chosen college, so trust their judgment. They know what works best for them, and while you may have ideas about what’s best, allow them to express their preferences. Be supportive and let them know that you believe in their ability to make a great decision.
The college search can be a challenging process, but it’s also a chance for you to bond with your child and help them take this next step toward independence. By being a thoughtful and supportive guide—without pushing too hard—you’ll help them make a decision they’re excited about. Remember, this is their journey, and with your support, they’ll be on the path to success in no time!
Remember tip #3: Encourage Campus Visits? Schedule your campus visit at Ellsworth Community College (ECC) or Marshalltown Community College (MCC) today!
Got questions? We’ve got answers. Reach out today to the Admissions teams at ECC or MCC! We’re here to assist!
